BOUNDARIES

As I was strolling through Facebook statuses today I stumbled on an article that really caught my attention. 11-year-old Willow Smith gets tongue pierced. The article went on to say that mom and dad said that they want their kids to be able to make their own decisions early on. Now I agree with them to some extinct, but I draw the line at piercings.

What happened to “letting your kids be kids”, let’s be real here, do u really want your children making a decision like that. Let them make their own decisions when it comes to their education (unless it’s about dropping out), career, and to some extinct clothing. The idea of seeing my 11-year-old cousins with their tongue, nose, or any other body part pierced would piss me off. When I heard that my 16 year old cousin got a tattoo I was pissed off because I know he isn’t old enough by law to be marking his body like that. If you give them permission to do that, then you are opening the door for them to make decisions that could lead to drugs, and other negative activities. Boundaries need to be set before you give your kids these kind of responsibilities. Let them know how far you would let their decision-making go, even if it was fake they should have said NO.

In my opinion they should have told her NO, and let her know that tongue piercings are for adults not little kids. They should have told her to think about the image she portraying to other little girls and boys who look up to her as a role model. This decision could cause her to lose some fans because of the message she sending out to them. If I had kids they wouldn’t have got my signature. Stop letting your kids grow up so fast. Set boundaries so that they will always know who the adult is in the family. Just because they have jobs in the entertainment business don’t mean anything. I’m just saying.

*uniqueme82*

 

SPACE

Sometimes I wonder what it would feel like to be living on my own. I mean I do enjoy living with my family, but I need a lot of space. I love shopping and when I go shopping I would love to tell people that I am buying decors for my place. I watch how other people buy things to decorate their living room, dining room, bedroom, and bathroom. I want to spend my money on more meaningful things. Things that I can take with me wherever I go. Its no longer important where I live…just give me a place where I can have my own space.

I want my own kitchen, living room, dining room, laundry room, and etc. I want my own place because I need my own space. Space, space, space. I want it, I need it, and one way, hopefully soon, I will have my own place.

I want my friends to feel comfortable visiting me. I want them to know that they are welcome to visit me anytime.

*uniqueme82*

About Me

Hello everyone,

Welcome to my blog: Uniqueme82! I am 29 yrs old, and I am currently studying for my Masters Degree in Healthcare Administration. I will be completing my studies at the end of this year. Thank you Jesus for being their for me through it all.

I spend a lot of my time with my family and friends. I love kids, computers, board games, and playing card games. Reading novels that peaks my interest has always been my favorite pass time love affair. I love shopping, chilling, chatting, and texting. 

My blog posts will vary from time to time. Its mainly going to be about things that I don’t like, t.v. shows and the characters that are being portrayed. The biggest thing that anyone and everyone could possibly talk about are relationships…that’s going to be kind of interesting. Its going to be about whatever I feel like writing about on that particular day. 

I want to thank everyone in ADVANCEfor viewing and responding to my blogs, and may God Bless you’ll.

Uniqueme82